10 Worst Non-Koozie Ways to Break-up with a Girl
Advice to Men from a Women
Get a Clue
I have a lot of guy friends that are ALWAYS asking for advice on what to do when they are no longer interested in dating a girl any more.
My first “SERIOUS” response is “Just make a personalized koozie with a heart felt quote, she’ll understand!” at which point we laugh and then the REAL discussion begins.
First of all, before I get into theTop 10 Worst Ways to Break-up with a Girl, I must say 1 thing based of an old proverb: Honesty is the Best Policy. Don’t be a coward and get to the point.
They’re IS nice ways to say, You’re just not that interested.
Let’s Begin the Count Down
(I used an article from askmen.com to assist me with the list)
10. When your drunk- Usually when under the influence, we tend to think things are funny when not, have a lose tongue, or can’t get the point across exactly the way we want to. Also on the receiving end we can perceive all of the above VERY negatively.
So, NEVER break-up with a girl when she OR you are messed up. Don’t mistake your liquid courage as intellect!
9.Stale Sayings- “It’s not You it’s Me…:” It is by far one the worst things you can. Just keep it real!
8. John Dear Letters, Facebook, Email and any non personal contact methods. Show your face and be a Man
7. During a Date or after asking her to hang out- Don’t ask her to come over to hang out and then try to break it off gently. Guarantee, you will probably hear something like: “You invited me over to tell me THIS???????????”
6. After making commitments- What’s worse than to buy a dog or rent an apartment or make ANY investment for that matter if you are not married or planning on spending the rest of you life with her. Don’t even talk about these things. We as women have tendency to read a little to into things.
5. Leave it to Assumption- NEVER beat around the bush, get to the point. Don’t just make little comments, be straight forward and direct.
4. Inventing Problems- This will make it worse. Seriously, DO NOT go looking for problems that don’t exist. Once you finally break it off she will remember all the different ways your coward a** couldn’t be real.
3.In Public- This one should be common sense. Receiving bad news in public creates embarrassment. Let her down gently in a private setting, PLEASE
2. Cheating on her- Wanna end up on dontdatehimgirl.com?
1. Disappearing Act- If you are scared and think avoiding the girl or situation will make it easier on you, you thought wrong. She will be at your doorstep sobbing within 36hrs. Guys, don’t deny it, YOU know you can’t handle a girl crying. She will end up sleeping over that night and you’ll back to square 1.
So guys, keep these tips in a mind and your opportunity of dating her best friend might may still be in your future. LOL